What happens when you abandon yourself
Who is going to take care of you if you don’t do that for yourself?
This is where self-abandonment begins.
You deprioritize yourself at the expense of others. You don’t trust your own intuition.
Your needs become less valuable—not because someone else’s needs are more important, but because you don’t value your own needs enough.
Yes, you don’t value your own needs enough.
You think they are less important. You stop taking care of yourself. You abandon yourself.
“Self-abandonment ends when you decide your needs are not less important—your truth matters, and you matter.”
You were not a martyr when you did that. You were just afraid—afraid of losing something you thought was more important than your own needs.
Maybe it was acceptance. Maybe it was fear of rejection, fear of being thrown out.
But in doing that, you threw yourself out. You left yourself.
This ends here.
“You were never a martyr—you were just afraid. But now, fear no longer rules you. You will not leave yourself again.”
You are not going to abandon yourself again.
You are not going to leave yourself again.
Your truth is important. You are important. You will take care of yourself—always.
You will not leave yourself again. You will be your own parent. You will never leave yourself.
This is your awakening.
This is your healing.
This is your rising.
Hold yourself. You are here. You are ready to walk this path.
“This is your awakening, your healing, your rising—hold yourself, because you are ready to walk this path.”
If something inside you softened while reading this—
If a part of you recognized the truth that abandoning yourself ends here—
Then this wasn’t just a post. It was an activation.
Because you are not here to keep leaving yourself behind.
You are here to return to yourself.
To honor your needs.
To rise into your truth.
You don’t need to keep betraying your own heart. You don’t need to keep struggling in timelines of misalignment. You simply need to choose yourself—and watch life open new doors.
And if you’ve been asking yourself…
— “How do I stop abandoning myself?”
— “How do I trust my inner guidance?”
— “How do I align with a life that truly supports me?”
This is your invitation. Not to push. Not to run away. But to align.
I’m offering a FREE 1-hour Soul Alignment Discovery Call on Zoom—
a sacred space where we’ll explore together: How to stop cycles of self-abandonment How to strengthen your connection to your intuition How to align your energy with your soul’s highest path
If it feels aligned, we can also go deeper through 1:1 sessions: Inner Clarity Session – 30 mins ($75) Deep Soul Alignment Session – 1 hour ($150)
I open only a limited number of free calls each month to keep the space intentional.
If your soul feels the “yes” as you read this, follow it— Click here to book your FREE Soul Alignment Discovery Call.
That yes is not random. It is your Higher Self showing you the doorway back to you.
